So tell me what you think. This is my opinion. When you get divorced, and have kids, you know that every other weekend is going to be yours. You go ahead and marry another lady, who says she has already raised her children, and isn't going to raise yours. You still marry her, and then your work schedual changes and you have to work one saturday a month, and that saturday just happens to fall on the weekend you are supposed to have your kids. So instead of asking your new wife to watch your kids, who she should love as her own any way, you call up and bail on your kids for the weekend. Not only do you hurt their feelings and they are having emotional issues over this, you screw you X who is with them all week long and could use a break once in a while, but heaven forbid her call your family because that would mean they were betraying you by helping out so she could have a break! ARE YOU FOR REAL!
I don't know but I feel that when you remarry, the person you remarry should love you kids as their own. They should want to help raise them and make sure that they feel loved when they come to visit. If not than I think I would be for choosing my kids over that new spouse.
In a divorce you kids should come first from now on!
I mean why would you want to be with someone who didn't love your kids?
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Sad.
OR... how about ask your x wife to switch weekends so that she has the kids the weekend you're working!! Yeah - that would be too simple too. I agree about the new wife... but "love is blind" right? One day he'll see it the way the rest of the family sees it and he'll kick himself for being an ass!
I'm with Aislinn - switch weekends. The kids need to spend time with their dad, not his new wife. It's tough, but the kids need to come first.
Thanks ladies, thats the most comments I've had in a long time. I agree as well, but it doesn't matter, he would find some excuse why that wouldn't work.
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