Don't know how to say it nice

Well lets just say this it is hard working for family. When it's good it's good, and when it's bad it's bad. When your mad and you don't work for family it's easier to be mad at your boss. It's hard to be mad at the boss when it's your In-laws.
This last Sunday We (everyone at Redd) took a pay cut. Although I do agree that we all needed to take a cut, I don't think that it should be the same cut for everyone. For me it was hard, because I see how much work Josh puts into the company, and I felt like it was a slap in the face. He gets home around 7, and lots of times ends up talking to his mom or dad on the phone about work. He works his butt off to make sure things are going right, he has basically run the company for a year, which has been very stressful on him. He just smiles and deals with it. I don't for the life of me know how that boy stays so positive. He works best under stress. He loves every minute, and wants to own it some day. I know that's why he works so hard.
Me on the other hand have my own opinions and they aren't very nice right now. I was taught if you can't say anything nice then don't say anything at all.
Josh I am very proud of you! Everything you stand for and everything you do. You are an amazing person. I hope someday I can be able to be like you and just keep a smile on my face. Thanks for being such a great husband, and father.