So I had this friend, we spent a lot of time together, and talked about everything. Most the time I ended up feeling bad for her and her situation. I felt like I could talk to her about everything. Then she decided that it was ok to share some of the things with others. I was hurt, but I let it go. I just learned that I couldn't talk to her anymore. She still talked to me and shared things with me which was great, I love to listen and try to help by giving advice. But as time went on she kept talking to me and I kept feeling bad for her. Then having a friendship with her started destroying other relationships becasue she wasn't being honest. She was talking about other friends to me,People were starting to wonder what kind of a person I was. Which is fine, those of you who know me, know me. I have nothing to hide. I love having friends and would do anything for them. So needless to say our relationship ended. It has been about 6 months and now this person is coming around again and acts like nothing happened. I just don't understand how people think they can say rude things and hurt someone and then just act like nothing happened.
I take friendship very seriously, and twice it has bitten me in the butt with this person. I just don't care to go down that road again. She made people feel like they coulnd't trust me, when it was her that they couldn't trust.
So tell me what would you do?
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4 comments:
Have you thought about talking to this friend and telling her how you feel? Many times that can be very uncomfortable, but it atleast let's her know where you stand so she can't play games with ya. Situations like this are always hard to judge ...
Don't know. Wish I had some good words of wisdom. Good luck!
you tell her to read your blog! You know, situations like this are always tough! Sometimes it's hard but it's better to come out and tell her that how you feel about how you've been treated. Good luck - and no matter what - I still love ya!
a conversation.
Seriously. It might be an uncomfortable one, but have a conversation.
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