I know I write a lot about people and Gossip and backstabbing. I also know that I am not perfect when it comes to these things. But I also know that I am more sensitive to them becasue of some issues I've had.
Just recently I was talking to a lady who has really been hurt by Gossip and people talking behind her back, and also judging her. I felt for her. She doesn't really even know me, I saw her crying and asked if she was ok. And she just opened up to me like we were best friends.
I just think that if people Knew how Gossip and talking behind peoples backs affected them, they wouldn't do it. And would stay out of conversations when people were doing it. Who are we to think that we are better than people, and what right do we have to say things about others situations. We all know it is hurtful.
I just ask all of you to think before you speak.
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What great advice Heidi. I'm totally a victim of bad gossip, and even though I've been on the bad end I've also been on the gossiping end... it seems after high school it's always like, "oh did you hear who married who?" or "how many kids this person has"... etc. etc. I'm glad you blogged about this, I'll think more before I talk.
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