Sorry for the post yesterday, but I am beside myself. I will just say that this last year hasn't been fun, and lets just say it keeps haunting me. We have done everything we were asked to do. We went to counseling for a year, and moved schools.
We have tried to stay positive,but keep getting little e-mails and letters that do not help either side. How are any of us supposed to move on when one of us keeps dweling.
I learned that I had to be positive, and let it go or it was going to destroy me and my little family. It isn't healthy to dwell on the negative.
I will say this! My life isn't all peachy as you would like to think. And No, not everyone rallied around me. I lost a lot of friends and lets just say I know who my true friends are. There are people who act like friends, and then there are my friends who stuck by me and are still standing by me.
This situation sucked, and it has been hard. I am truly sorry that it happened, and destroyed a friendship. I wish things could have been different, but there not.
I hope that things change, and that people can move on. I hope that people will let things go and look on the positive. I think that one reason I am able to be so positive is because of the counseling we went to. It helped our little family in so many ways.
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Heidi, I have watched you and your cute family over the last year or so and have really admired how you have handled the whole "situation". I don't know that I could have handled it with such dignity and grace as you have. You are an amazing mom and friend!
Amen to what Carly said. I think you are doing all you can do in moving on, learning the things you could, changing what you could and sticking together at all costs. We love you guys!
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